The suggestion perhaps leads you to believe that you are playing the role of Mistress and slave, that isn't always true, for some couples it is a chance to be true to themselves.

I also enjoy sex with my slave in a vanilla sense and like other non-scene couples we enjoy a romantic candle lit dinner followed by an evening of Tantric sex, scattered cushions, candles and oils. The role play scenarios we enjoy are no different, they just have a BDSM theme and are a way of us having a special time together away from the real world and immersing ourselves in wonderful headspace. It also gives me a chance to dress up, which I love, in over the top costumes, historical dresses, leather........wonderful. The intensity of playing a scenario can produce an extrodinary power exchange and with it heightened sexual feelings. How much of a 24/7 relationship you have is irrelevant. The role play can inhance your scene relationship. I have written about a few of my favourite scenes to give you a few ideas.

So don't feel guity.........enjoy,